Granpalewis- Publishing our phone number!!!

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tcalvs
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Granpalewis- Publishing our phone number!!!

Post by tcalvs »

Aidan,
I am very disturbed and freaked out that this player published my phone # on the chat today. He is very abusive which I have ignored, but not playing him, but today he continued his harassment and abuse and published my husband & my home phone #. This is not acceptable and I feel it necessary to report this to the police and or terminate my membership with Grassroots games. Not sure how he got my phone # as I am not a computer guru, but I do know that my husband would be very upset if he knew people were staking, trolling or whatever they call it.
Please, address this immediately!!
I am very upset.
Tara

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You are a disturbed individual and if I get anymore flack from you I am notifying the police and withdrawing my membership from this game.
I do not deserve this kind of harassment; life has enough hardships and difficulties to deal with bullies like you.
Please, examine your own heart and motives therein!
Tara

tcalvs
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Doesn't deserve a reply..

tcalvs
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Removed my email information from the Google search and would recommend anyone else who is concerned about privacy issues to have their personal info removed from public search engines. It is really too bad that it has come to this. But you gotta do what you gotta do to protect your personal information.
The individual invading my private info is also, trying to ruin my integrity and reputation. Playing a game should not involve so much garbage, life is difficult enough as it it.
Tara

Dean6417
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This is really disturbing Aidan.

I would advise tara to go to Apple direct and report the abuse there.
Aidan, what the hell are you doing? this is a disgrace , there are numerous problems with the system itself: the distribution of cards is so uneven that I actually despair playing the game, and I mean on both the "online" game and the private where the bot is the competition.

I see though that you have had the wisdom to remove the word "competitive" from the options, excuses the people who are certainly not that!

The other "major " problem is of course the problem that was exposed by Iceman aka sunny corner, Billy, myself and Marekjoz months ago : multiple aliases and cheating through this avenue.Aristo and his "Sybillian" personalities are all back. as are people like like the above dingbat,Grandpalewis, Mountainman, etc etc..

In fact. reading what Iam writing, and the reason for it, i would like to take the option you advertise when you solicit people to join,and that is I would like you to refund my money immediately please and take me off the board.

Tara, Billy, and several others that i have respect and admiration for I wish you safety and a happy life
Cheers Dean

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Dean,
Thank you for all your support over the course of the last couple of months; I greatly appreciate it! I wish you all the best and hope to play you sometime again in the future. You are a man of strong character and ideals and that is something so lacking in today world.
Blessings,
Tara

Dean6417
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Tara,thank you for responding.
My life has been extremely diverse, from leaving school age 13, to joining the Australian navy at 17 and doing 3 trips to Vietnam, to mature -age entrance and ultimately graduating from Uni with a B.A in Theology, to running Churches and businesses(not related lol).Virtually reading and dealing with people all my life.
Why the preamble
These people by and large Tara are cowards.They hide behind their keyboards. They "puff themselves up" to being someone in their mind that is so far from reality that if they actually met their "pretend-selves" it would terrify them.
Again, good luck.been a pleasure.
Cheers dean

tcalvs
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Wow, Dean you have had full life with a lot of diverse experiences. A degree in theology, wow! I so, appreciate you sharing all that background with me, it gives me insight to who you are. I love Australia as my husband and I were there in 2012 a bucket list item for us and he got to meet up with a childhood friend he had not seen in 20 years.

I totally agree with you about the people that behave with ugliness and deceit and find it very sad, but bad enough to subject myself to the barrage nastiness. I am a follow of Christ and this incident along with a couple others has pushed some major buttons for me to act in ways that I am not sure are honoring to God and thus caused me to step away for a bit.

It is really hard for me, because for the most part I have a lot of fun playing hearts, meeting new people and hearing their stories.
So, this morning I went online to see who was there out of curiosity and Nemesis ask why I was there if I was not playing; good question.
I am not sure why, but I have this need to tell people why I am not going to play for awhile-strange huh!
Blessings to you Dean man of God!
Tara

billy
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Post by billy »

Hi Tara,
Felt a little bit guilty in not replying, but echo both you and Dean's comments in your posts.To have your personal info broadcast is totally unacceptable. I can't understand why Aidan doesn't appear to be doing anything about all these issues. By not addressing these issues, it makes you feel that it is acceptable, but Aidan has had a recent run of replying almost instantly but that didn't last long. Perhaps your plan of taking a break is a good idea. You never know things may be different when you come back, but as they say over here, Don't hold your breath !
Hopefully catch up again soon. You too Deano. take care Billy

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Billy,
No reason to feel guilty. I had noticed in the past that you had written here on the forum and thought you might be interested, only reason I mentioned it to you. I appreciate your support and kindness and yes you are a gentleman, no matter what anyone has said to you.
I am hoping for a good, sane and safe outcome to all this and then I will be able to play with you all again.
Cheers,
Tara
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SunnyCorner
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Post by SunnyCorner »

Once again the perpetrator blaming the victim. The fact that Tara's details were easily accessible is not the point the point - why were you looking and then use the information to bully and intimidate her.

You are another obnoxious abuser masquerading as an honest person - you have a least 3 identities that we know about they are granpalewis Barley and YesChef - and you should be banned!

Speaking of multiples again - Bobo24 - Roger 56 and shakirafan are the same person and I see that redandblack is now on as E Z.

Regards to all. Iceman

tcalvs
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Wow, I have never made any comments to anyone about ethnicity (white, hispanic, african american anything), nor have I ever entered into a conversation about someone's sex life; honestly this is ridiculous and has no place in the game of hearts!!!!!!! I had someone suggest to me one time that I needed to have more sex with my husband and I thought that was totally out of line. So, try to slander me and rake my name through the mud, but I know the truth, what I have said or not said as this is totally unfounded. This is an example of exactly, the reason I am not playing. I feel sorry for you more than anything else, why would you be so horrible. Find something to be positive about and go do it.

Dean6417
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Well not only is this guy wrong again, but I'm not sure he would recognise what truth is if he stepped in it.
I have never made a racist comment on here or anywhere else, but I accept that a lowlife like someone who actually publishes personal details on an international game lobby is someone who would seek to manufacture justification from anywhere he can .Doesn't matter if it is true or not.
In fact I have just finished a game with another female, the same woman that you have published her home town and address details on the same lobby, and she denies the allegations you are making against Tara.
It seems that you have a real problem in your life in areas concerning Truth; women and common decency.

Iceman doesn't need me or anybody else to defend him, but he is a decent enough man to keep the information relevant to the game,i.e ip addresses that prove the existence of...well people like you!

Cheats
Frauds
quitters
misogynists
recidivist abusers.
Thank you Ice, you are doing this community a favour.

Aidan, I believe you suspended the loser called Barley before, well this loudmouth, abusive, false accuser, is the one and the same. Not to mention one of his other aliases which is Yeschef.

Ironically, all of his personas are identical , foulmouthed cheats.
So Granpalewis, or whatever you want to call yourself, stop being a keyboard warrior and man up and leave these good people to enjoy their leisure time free of imbeciles like you.

Aidan, for the sake of your own credibility, get rid of people like this from the site once and for all.
Please!
regards Dean6417

tcalvs
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Sir,
Jojo is the one who threw that accusation at me about a couple months ago and I have all my records of who I have played and the people in that group were decent individuals who would certainly vouch for me on this; not sure where you are getting your information but, but is incorrect. Jojo and I have since made amends. So, please get on with your life and do something productive instead of this ugliness, it is pointless.
Tara

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Aidan,
This individual has now published personal info of another female player on chat room. He is only doing this with women and is a predator that needs to be dealt with. It is not okay and in fact is dangerous as we don’t know who all this info is going to. Please, I implore you do something about this and take us females out of harms way.
I spoke with her today and she confirmed that her info had been shared. This is not a matter of dealing with an verbal abuser anymore, it has escalated to dangerous.

"In fact I have just finished a game with another female, the same woman that you have published her home town and address details on the same lobby, and she denies the allegations you are making against Tara."

tcalvs
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None, of my words have been lies as I spoke directly with the woman who's information you posted and she confirmed what dean said about you posting her info on the forum; so no lies. So, yes I do have proof; I took a picture of our conversation. We reap what we sow Barley and evidentially people will grow tired of all this. I am not playing, nor will I until something is done, but I have been having conversations with people, I like and respect. I will not respond to your words about my husband and validation as it does not deserve one.

Not sure what drives you to be so ugly and unpleasant, but I know that from the heart the mouth speaks. I pray you find way to be a kind human being someday.

Dean6417
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granpalewis is another fool of an alias called django.
passes himself off as American but is from afghanistan or pakistan.
Enough said, gives a reason for his hatred towards women.
Unless of course he is a militant homosexual.

Dean6417
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This piece dirt is no longer going to get an answer from me.

I have seen some pathetic human specimens in my life but this one is simply a coward.

tcalvs
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This is my last response to you Barley! I will not be wasting my energy with this you any further.
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This is the picture I took of part of the conversation with Jojo at which she told me that you posted her personal information.
So, again no lies, I don't lie. Here is my proof, not that need to prove anything to you; thinking now you might leave me alone. I pray for you that you find something to do well and be positive about instead of this nonsense.
Good Bye

tcalvs
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No comment, don't care anymore! Not worth anymore of my time.
Good bye

tcalvs
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"As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man."

"As charcoal to embers and wood to fire, so a quarrelsome man for kindling strife."

"A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but in his heart harbors deceit."

"Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows."

Dean6417
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Tara,
It would seem that you have a Stalker.
The fact that he has hacked into your personal details even your jogging routines is serious and very worrying development.

Police need to be notified my friend.
Pretty sure the Behavioural Unit at the FBI would take an interest in this as well.
This person has serious personality issues and probably qualifies as a psychopath.

You my friend are in danger!

Action now if I were you.
Dean

tcalvs
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Jogging routines? I have not been playing in games at all since the incident.
I have had a few conversations with people, but that is it. If he is indeed talking about my jogging habits in the chat, not sure why and who would care? Not sure what law enforcement could do at this point as there have been no threats made toward me. I just need to stay away from the game until he is removed and safeguards are made to insure characters like him who abuse people are filtered out. I had a long conversation with my husband last night about it all and he agrees.
After tomorrow I am fasting from all social media platforms and forums etc.. for a week or more as I need to reprioritize what is important as I have a lot to be grateful for; our life is too short for all this pointless ugliness; it grieves my heart.

tcalvs
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Google Search-I have now blocked from my view of your postings on this forum. No longer am I subjected to anymore of your craziness and abuse.
Good Bye!

tcalvs
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Dean,
You were indeed right he was posting one of my jogging trails today. What a disturbed individual!!
Thought he would leave me alone if I just stayed away, but no.
So, sad!
Tara

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